Outside at 7 am after the storm. The house was getting hot already so we sat in the yard deciding what to do next. Abigail made the best of the morning picking flowers.
Derecho -- a widespread, long-lived, straight-line windstorm that is associated with a fast-moving band of severe thunderstorms. [wikipedia]
I bet most of us never knew there was such a weather phenomenon before last Friday night. While Brian and I were cozied up watching the US Olympic trials last weekend, like a lot of folks around here, we didn't pay much attention to the storm alert scrolling across the top of the screen. We giggled as we backed up the stream to read all of the cities and counties listed. "Wow" We said as we looked at each other and said "guess they couldn't nail down the kill zone". We peeked out the window, saw a nice breeze then disregarded it and got back to our Olympics. It was about 9:30.
Not too long after that the power went off. We looked at each other in question since there was no apparent storm that we could hear. We looked outside and it was an eerie sight. No rain, no thunder, just a the glow of distant lightning and a fierce wind blowing our stars and strips out front. Brian and I stepped out on our porch and found the clouds were high and we couldn't believe how hot the wind was after dark. We went to check on the kids and Abigail seemed wide awake and very nervous. I decided to lay down with her while Brian went back outside. I almost felt like we should be watching for twisters the way it looked but the Bit needed some comfort. She literally shook in bed like a little frightened rabbit. We opened her blinds and watched the wind rip down our street in a weird green sky. We joked and tried to make light of the strange weather outside to cheer her up. It didn't work.
We wound up setting up Brian's laptop in our bed, thankful it had battery life, to let Abigail watch a movie and settle her nerves. The storm didn't last long, maybe 30 or 45 min then it was eerie still and quiet. We texted our friends who we thought would be awake to find out we weren't alone in the power outage. We went bed hot, hopeful we would wake up to the house humming back to life. The temperature outside had to be in the 90's even this late and after all that wind. Chloe didn't sleep much that night so that meant Brian and I didn't sleep much. She kept wandering out of her room saying "I'ya wayer!" Meaning she wanted water, poor kid was hot. I remember multiple times I heard the pitter patter of her feet in her room and we didn't bother to get up each time. We knew she'd find her bed again when she got ready to lay down again.
The next morning we started to get the word that it was a bigger storm then we realized. I knew I had never seen a sky like the night before but we were starting to see this storm was different. Brian debated about going to work but headed over to find the city was a mess as he drove through. He said he had power at his office but a tall strip mall light tower had fallen over onto a parked car in the lot during the storm. Luckily Deana and Greg had left town for the week and had an empty powered house. They offered as they drove out to let us come hang out at their house until power resumed. By mid morning our house was miserable and we decided to take them up on their offer to save some frozen food and get comfortable. I took a cold shower then packed up all the food I could package and headed over to Deana's place. As we left I walked around handing out our phone numbers to the neighbors and learned not many were planning to stay either. The forecast was supposed to hit 102 and that was just not something anyone wanted to endure in still houses. Some were getting last remaining hotel rooms and others were heading to family like us. When we got to Deana's Christine was there too, she also had no power.
We spent the night there. Even though Dee's place had power the phones and cable networks were still down. We finished watching a dvd then sat listening to a poor radio signal in the living room just like it was 1940 and that was the only way to know what was going on. I still didn't sleep much since another band of storms came through and scared the dogs keeping them up several times through the night. Sunday morning we started to learn the word Derecho and I was anxious to reconnect to the world any way we could to learn more. Our cell phones were only partially working and oddly less and less as the day went on. Brian and I left the girls with Grammie and headed out to clean out the fridge and find somewhere with internet access.
We stopped at a local coffee shop and it was wall to wall people. If I had my camera I would have taken a picture of the wall sockets. People had every socket full all over the coffee shop. Each table had people in grubby clothes with their laptops open leaned in stern faced and getting up to date on everything going on. The floors around the tables were littered with chords as they plugged in to charge their phones. Brian and I fortunately found a little table for 2 and each of us plopped down with our his and hers computer companions to reconnect. I was dying to just watch a local news broadcast and see some pictures. Facebook let us know that we had most of our friends online singing the same song as us. Those most pitiful were those with little kids who grew restless and cranky in the heat.
We sat for a while getting really caffeinated from the tiring 36 hrs dealing with this mess. We headed home to a hot house and ticked off cats to deal with the fridge. The street was deserted except for a few noisy generators humming behind the lucky houses who had obtained them. We gutted the remaining food items and I went to work with bleach and baking soda. I had a spanking new fridge and freezer when I was done. We took more cold showers (by choice, we still had hot water w/ a gas water heater) then headed back to Deana's house.
By Sunday night we were getting word that they were working in our neighborhood. Brian drove back over to check and stopped to talk with some power workers near our street. He thanked them for their hard work and they said how much they appreciated his kindness. Evidently the last lady who stopped cussed them out. They were a team up from Alabama and the truck was here from Tennessee.
We got the word by 8 0'clock that it was back on. With a loud cheer we started to pack up and head home. I was so relieved since I had to head to work at 0630 Monday morning. The house was still very hot but we didn't mind. We knew the a/c would get caught up by morning.
At work folks were tense and well, just grumpy quite frankly. So many people walked across the bridge from the parking garage with heads hung low and wet hair. Already it was proving to be another blazing hot day and the sun wasn't even up yet. Some nurses had been using one of our labor rooms to shower in once they got in to work. Even my patients were cranky (and no! they aren't always on my floor). If people had power then they had a house full of friends and family staying with them who didn't. Most people had minimal damage but lost all their food. If it wasn't 100 degrees all weekend it would have been much better. It's usually so much more mild here. It was really poor timing that our thermometers reached over 100 when no one could get cool. I finished my shift then left with word that Sue had found mom and dad a generator in Chesapeake and had driven it mid state to meet up with them.
Brian and I took the girls to dinner then headed out to mom and dads to help them toss food and set up the generator. It was a big job. Poor dad loves to shop and Sams Wholesale and had a deep freezer full of partially thawed bags of meat and groceries. It was money down the drain. We sorted out some things we could salvage while the girls kept quiet, sensing the tension in the air, at a table in mom's dark basement. Brian pumped dad full of water desperately trying to get him hydrated and we all got some order in progress before we called it a night. We took bags full of beef and chicken back to our working kitchen to cook up what meat we could save. I hit the pillow hard after 10, it'd been another long hot day but thankful we were able to offer some help to mom and dad. I struggled with some guilt and tears that we hadn't gotten over there sooner to help them. Live and learn.
It's been a long hot week. A weird week of knowing how truly unprepared we were for an emergency and pleased to see the humanity tested and shown in our little city. We learned a lot. We now know we have no 9 volt batteries, which is what EVERY radio evidently runs on. Cell phones fail when everyone and their brother is using them and transmitters are down. We learned who are true friends are that we can reach out to in trouble and equally those who feel comfortable to reach out to us. We learned how strange it feels to loose touch with current events and how much we really depend on technology. We learned that cities run out of basics like bagged ice, gasoline and generators as we witnessed long lines for each of these items. That your children count on you keeping calm and their wide eyes need to see your's as a comfort and what a challenge that is when you want to loose it. That people pull together and show their true colors, be them good or bad in an emergency. And that above it all God is still in control of it all, every detail and that is and always will be my greatest comfort and strength.
We can all learn lessons as we admire people like mom's 89 yr old friend. Mom had spoken with her but went to see her and pick her up yesterday. She volunteers every week at our local rescue mission teaching God's word to homeless drug addicts. When mom got to her house she had 6 huge trees down in her front yard, including one across her front door. Also to find they had had a small fire ignite in one of their rooms. "I can't believe you didn't mention the damage to your home or the fire when I spoke with you!" my mom exclaimed when she got inside. "well, God's taking care of us and at my age you just don't fret too much anymore". What a testimony. We should all just take God's hand so graciously when trouble strikes shouldn't we!?
Now I have to go clean up my house and get
ready. Mom and dad are coming for dinner and showers later. At least
we have plenty of meat to eat up! :)
(these photos were uploaded from a local news site from people capturing damage in the area)
Thursday, July 5, 2012
Saturday, June 9, 2012
Recital time
She looks so pretty in her stage make up, and I can't lie, I love playing dress up and putting it all on her!
I look atrocious and exhausted but I don't care, me and my dancer had a fun night
keeping entertained until their number was up
so loved this one!
a little overexposed with the bright sunlight but kind of a neat picture! Love those eyes!
This picture didn't come out as beautiful as it was in real life. When we walked out of the theater the moon was big and beautiful and riding low in the sky just above our city star. My camera didn't do it close to justice but I tried. It was such a gorgeous night!
Well another dance season under our belts. We had a great time at the show this year and Abigail was our little star again. Despite her not being as crazy about her routine as last year she still rocked out to her hip hop number and did amazing. Especially since she's still only 5 yrs old in a class for 6-8 yr olds. We were so proud of her. We did the rehearsals on Friday night again and I took mom with me so we could include Chloe on a more relaxed setting. I wanted Chloe to see her sister do her thing and Chloe didn't move a muscle when the Bit's class was practicing. I suspect this time next year Chloe will be wanting to be in her own number and fancy get up. We went to Wendy's after the rehearsal and had a good fatty meal before calling it a day. We had a good turn out for recital night. This was the first time she was in the evening show instead of the afternoon one. Grammie and Deana Greg and little Mindy came too but couldn't stay for long so we didn't get any pictures of them. Half way through the 3 hr performance we got Abigail out of backstage and said good bye to Daddy and her Mi-Mi and Pa Pa. Me and Abigail went to find better seats to see the remaining portion of the show. When the curtain closed for the last time Abigail whined out in her own way and said "awwww! Mommy I don't want it to be over?!" I had to explain to her that protesting would not make the show go on any longer. She eats this stuff up and it's a blast to enjoy it all with her. She is so good at it and she definitely has the heart and guts of a performer so far. On the way to the theater recital night I asked her again if she was nervous about performing, her reply was the same as last year...a very quick confident "No!", "I'm excited!". That's my girl!
Tuesday, May 29, 2012
sleepover fun
matching suits...NOT planned, just proof these girls have a lot in common.
I know, I'm such a bad mom for letting my 2 yr old run around w/ a passy in her mouth. But she was a little overwhelmed with the loud and rowdy kindergarteners , she wanted the security! I indulged her.
Emma was fascinated with Mr. Brian's Star Wars game. It was so cute!! I love so much how he protected himself from the loud squeals and giggles and hid in the bedroom all night. (He had lots of distant support from Emma's dad Jim (who was home relaxing with mojitos on his back porch!) Brian did emerge randomly in support and to help me cook and get a good laugh.
The first attempt to leave them and say goodnight. I thought the evening was done at this point...probably 9:30ish.....I was so "dary" wrong!
We had Abigail's first little sleepover this memorial day weekend and the girls had an absolute ball! I must say I was a bit nervous for them and hoped I could keep the excitement and party alive enough to keep little Emma from getting homesick, but they both did great. Emma is such a sweet friend of Abigail's that lives just 5 or 6 houses down our street. They are too tiny peas in a pod. We love her mom and dad and so it's a friendship we are very thankful for and want to grow. The girls were complete pills counting down to the big event and mutually her mom and I were glad when we finally got the little monkeys together. We started with a sprinkler party in the backyard complete with loud music from my ipod station. The video of the 'dance party' as Abigail named it was a riot. I will try to post a clip of it. The girls had fun running around until they got too cold then came in for Kool Aid and princess tu tus. I fed them hot dogs and tater tots and with a big mouthful of dinner and ketchup showing Emma announced in her own dramatic way complete with eye roll for emphasis "oh Abigail....you are so my BFF!" [translation 'best friends forever' for 30 yrs from now when I have no idea what that means]
We did cookies and popcorn for movie time on the living room floor. Chloe did not understand why we were enjoying so much festive food and play time but she was very into it. The big girls did so good to be patient with the tiny 2 year old shadowing behind them all evening. Only once did they have a game they wanted privacy on so I sent the Chloe bird back to hang with Daddy who had quarantined himself to the back with his star wars game. He lovingly put on the movie Star Wars and good old handsome Han Solo held Chloe's attention nicely for 30 min.
As the evening drew to a close Emma began to announce how "weird" it was to not be at home with her mommy and daddy. Desperately trying to get her through her first sleepover we pulled out all the stops to keep the party going until she absolutely passed out with exhaustion. I allowed both Emma and Abigail to climb back into bed with me (Brian took the computer game back to the living room when the coast was clear), where me and the little ladies stayed until after 11 o'clock watching Wall-E until they literally passed out. I was so proud of Emma. I knew she wanted so badly to be a big girl and make it all night. I carried the little stick insects (what I loving refer to the girls at the knees and elbows stage) back to the Bit's big bed. They slept like little logs all night. Although Abigail did complain at the lack of space when I snuck out of her room that night. My squirmy worm needs ample space to flail but she did ok and no one woke up with a shiner thank goodness!
We did waffles with red white and blue sprinkles on top for a patriotic breakfast. Then we let Emma's parents pick both girls up and drive our Bit to church then we met them there to make the switch after their time in Kings Kids. In the lobby afterwards both girls begged to keep it going and spend Sunday afternoon together but we drew the line for sanity and made them say goodbye and part ways. It was a great success and I'm sure the first of many girly invasions and sleepovers.
Monday, May 14, 2012
mothers day 2012
Well this was an interesting mothers day weekend for us this year. Holding very true and consistent with the current trend of the year we found ourselves once again in the throws of a sick little girl with the stomach flu. We seem to have stayed sick all year, I really think the sickest we've ever been since having kids and maybe ever. Poor Abigail woke up Saturday morning with a fever of 102 and then the fun followed close behind. We had grand plans to attend 3 birthday parties through the course of the day and it just broke her heart to have to miss them all for "the quizzies" as she lovingly refers to them. The poor kid threw up probably 6 or 8 times by bedtime Saturday. She had melted into her almost non responsive zone she gets into when she is that sick. The first time she did it it scared me to death. It's almost like she just goes away to another place when she feels that bad. She doesn't make eye contact with you when you speak to her, she won't speak, won't smile. Just a very flat affect until you can get her hydrated and feeling stronger. That unfortunately wasn't until mid morning on Sunday when we finally got some Gatorade into her. Brian did a very sweet job of making us all breakfast and taking care of his girls and wife on mothers day.
We had a funny spin on the day that I have to remember. That morning over coffee and a flaccid pale Bit in my lap I noticed what I swear sounded like a duck in our air vents. The annoying thing was it ...honked or quacked every 45 seconds or so. Brian remembered that he had attempted to change the air filter last weekend , got the wrong size and had left the system filterless for the week. Fearing the worst I of course started to fret that we had blown it and would face another huge home expense. He picked at that furnace all day long, even cutting the power to it at one point and the dern thing still quacked. Meanwhile I took the girls outside for some much needed fresh air. I laid a blanket in the back yard and brought out coloring books and saltine crackers. Even sweet Chloe remained low key for the most part for her sister being very content to just sit and "coyer". We enjoyed the breeze for a while then the Bit admitted she was done and needed to head in.
Poor Brian had still been working on the mystery. He had gone to the hardware store, he called the heating company, his company, and even his trusted google let him down without a solution. By mid afternoon after our naps he told me he even took my stethascope to the hot water heater and the furnace to make sure where the noise's origin was. You see since his surgery Brian has lost the ability to determine direction to sounds. It can be very frustrating for him at times. He asked me to once again walk downstairs and see if I could tell with certainty which appliance the noise was coming from. When I did crawl all the way over to between the 2 machines I busted out laughing. I called for him to come down and showed him the wicked culprit to our problem.... an old ratty looking smoke alarm that was mounted behind some duck work and must have a dead battery. We couldn't see the thing until we were all the way behind the heaters and Brian couldn't tell the noise was overhead. Relieved we removed the very inexpensive 9volt battery with a smile. Ahhh, for once the expense wasn't what we feared. We have lived here for 3 years and never knew there was an alarm there.
As the day was drawing to a close. I threw the girls in the tub to get the stomach cooties off of them and discovered the poor Bit had a tiny tick on her hip. Of all the days, she was NOT in the mood for tick removal in her state. I did the hot match, and then alcohol soak to get the thing out with her wailing in pitiful exhausted drama. Her scrawny little bony body just didn't want any more insults. We got through it and she and Chloe forgot their woes and played in the bath together.
the sweet girls got excited at Daddy's magic even though they knew it was just for mommy after they went to bed.
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
random spring photos
Abigail's own style, I love it. School socks and sweaters. :)
Chloe and all her "Miyaa Moww's" every day she waddles down the hall when she wakes up with her arms full of her blankets and 3 Minnie Mouse toys.
Watching Snow White on Mommy and Daddy's bed
Having a good spring so far. These are just some random pictures of play time with friends and some down time sweetness at home.
Chloe and all her "Miyaa Moww's" every day she waddles down the hall when she wakes up with her arms full of her blankets and 3 Minnie Mouse toys.
Watching Snow White on Mommy and Daddy's bed
Having a good spring so far. These are just some random pictures of play time with friends and some down time sweetness at home.
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